The most awaited prince charming or ....

Girls have always been a complicated specie created by God. Sometimes they find solace in the hug from their mother, sometimes in the scolding of their friends, sometimes in the special care of that special someone. Always we have been told that someone has been made for us. And then believing all that, someone does come in our lives just to shatter our dreams and make us believe that the "fairy land "world we believed in doesn't quite exist. At the marriageable age we are judged inside out,up down .Something i went through recently. Met  guy who seemed to have liked me a year ago. Though my friends continuously warning he isn't your match, he isn't worthy, being a good human that i have always strive to be, I met. Everything was seeming so perfect. Okay he wasn't like the one I have always dreamed about but I was just believing him and his family for being so good to us. They had given our family assurance that guy is totally a seedha sadha and he would not say no to me ever. After visiting their place the family didn't seem to be friendly accepting me. I was judged for my talking, walking , thoughts, laughing, eating everything. And after that when i was sent alone with him, I thought finally I can  take a minute of relief and be myself. But it turned out to be my biggest mistake. He was the biggest judgmental among everyone. He just said no to me for me being myself with him saying our nature doesn't match. So this was it. This was the day I was raised for to lose my self confidence. Wow seems like an easy life given to me. He was the guy I was to rely on for the entire life who just gave up on me just like that. This was really a dream that a girls dreams for . 

God doesn't love HAPPY Faces !!!1

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You can choose to be affected or you can choose to affect the world!!!!!!!

There has been a situation in every persons' life that he/she falls in the most hyped feeling called :love". And to mention that only 2% of the love stories end up being together. What could be the reason then.. family,society,career.. or any bullshit reason given by your partner. There is only one reason why the two people in a relationship cannot be with each other and that is "the two people" themselves. Because there cannot be any reason beyond that. Its because either of them might not want to be with you or looking for a better option. This world has come to a point where we are always searching for the better options and just dont value the one with us. or rather we keep them on hold that you might be the last person i would be with if i dont find anyone else. So as rightly said by someone no one can love you more than your own self. Look at that person in the mirror who has lot of hopes in her eyes from you and do something for her. She has already been wounded. She is in deep pain wanting your attention but meanwhile you are focusing on someone who doesnt really bother. And mind you in your failures or bad times he wouldn't even turn back and look at you. We remember marriages are made for a lifetime and you grow old with that person sharing your joys,strengths and WEAKNESSES, but now nobody is actually ready to accept the weaknesses. They all want someone perfect but they forget that Even GOD had flaws when he born as human. So they will be the first person to leave you during flaws. Remember those hands that made you learn how to walk, remember those eyes who have hapiness in their eyes seeing you happy and who cry seeing you cry. Can any love be that pure. They possess us and they have right on every inch of our being.,