The most awaited prince charming or ....

Girls have always been a complicated specie created by God. Sometimes they find solace in the hug from their mother, sometimes in the scolding of their friends, sometimes in the special care of that special someone. Always we have been told that someone has been made for us. And then believing all that, someone does come in our lives just to shatter our dreams and make us believe that the "fairy land "world we believed in doesn't quite exist. At the marriageable age we are judged inside out,up down .Something i went through recently. Met  guy who seemed to have liked me a year ago. Though my friends continuously warning he isn't your match, he isn't worthy, being a good human that i have always strive to be, I met. Everything was seeming so perfect. Okay he wasn't like the one I have always dreamed about but I was just believing him and his family for being so good to us. They had given our family assurance that guy is totally a seedha sadha and he would not say no to me ever. After visiting their place the family didn't seem to be friendly accepting me. I was judged for my talking, walking , thoughts, laughing, eating everything. And after that when i was sent alone with him, I thought finally I can  take a minute of relief and be myself. But it turned out to be my biggest mistake. He was the biggest judgmental among everyone. He just said no to me for me being myself with him saying our nature doesn't match. So this was it. This was the day I was raised for to lose my self confidence. Wow seems like an easy life given to me. He was the guy I was to rely on for the entire life who just gave up on me just like that. This was really a dream that a girls dreams for .