Hi... I am returning to this page after a very long time.. many things have happened till now.. and it this point I am engaged to someone . I might get married to him.. and although i feel lucky to have found him. ..i am not feeling very happy about this progression in life. i don't know why our society has raised men like this.. who are so scared to voice their opinion out or may be they just don't care. He seems to be a really nice human being but when i saw my father touching his feel in the engagement ceremony because of a ritual as suggested by pandit ji... he didn't oppose it. and again it brought me back to the same  question of why marrying someone who cant even take care of the respect of your papa.i hated it.. i don't want to hate him before marriage. our marriage date is still not finalized. bt i don't want to fall out of love. but the truth is i might. if i lose respect for him.. i will lose the love i have for him. Dis society has taken a lot from us and now its taking a toll on my relationships too. The way i have been raised by my papa.. i am so proud of it and i never expected something like could happen vid me. but i am also a slave or rather m becoming a slave of this society customs and traditions. This is not how i expected my life would be. Bade papa you know everything... I wanted to see my husband with pride. please don't let me be stuck with  a mediocre mindset guy. I like nishu ji and i want to marry him.. but please make him understand that these things matter.. Always being silent about things wont help. I like flawed people.. i don't think i can be with someone who is always trying to be politically correct. Bade papa please broaden the mindset of people. Sometimes i do think that what is the point of getting married and be vid someone because everyone is gonna disappoint you at sometime or the other. but then when i see the happiness in my parents eyes because of my this decision to marry.. i take a step back and rethink. papa has raised me to be very confident and