Tuesday, 20 August 2019

What happens when you have too loving parents

Again a blog close to my heart. I wanted to share my experiences of meeting the most pampered and loved kids and how their journey turned out to be. I myself have been married to a guy who couldnt care less about the fact of how much care and love I received before marriage. But then when I met the little princess around, I realised most of them have been turned into mature ladies by these cruel men outside their families who couldnt just take they have received and forced them to change. My friend got married and settled in London and then she was a victim of domestic voilence. She was my idea of a "Princess" . She used to climb on my scooty for the tution rides and her car with a driver used to follow us. I had never seen her repeat clothes.. Her mom loved her to bits and her papa could have given anything for her but when I saw this girl suffering, my heart ached and I thought we go into the lives of someone to make it more beautiful but that person just sucks everything out of your life... just like that insect in the movie "LIFE". Now I realised why I got that dream before my marriage of my encounter with that insect. It was an indication of what I was getting into. My bde papa might have tried to save me but I didn't understand his indication. I have been born in a family where parents love their kid sooo much.. they were never selfish about anything. But being married to a guy and meeting his peers around , I realised the problem that lies in the ground level. How disrespectful each of them were towards their wives. I wish I could have done something for them .. but never the less I am working on a dream. God please be with me... I want to make a shelter home for women who dont want to suffer voilence disrespect everyday , have self confidence  and who can dream.. It is a big task at hand and I have to do a lot in less time... I had other dreams.. but now I have those women glaring at me as to what I do ,as I never took this disrespect. As if there eyes were telling me to take a stand. I am head strong because of the people I met... And they were not just outside but in my family too. Recently on Rakshabandhan my  sister who always looked cheerful and vibrant came to share her experience and the cruel reality that lied behind her smile, we were shocked!!!

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