He took her identity and shattered it into pieces... Day before yesterday my in laws and husband visited to apparently sort out the things and listen to the complaints. But they went on some different tangent of insulting me,my brother and my parents. I was shocked and now cannot see myself with such a man. I couldnt belv my eyes of what cheapness they were witnessing. But i had a bigger agenda at hand where i had to select where i want to see myself. Do i want to see myself working for him or building on myself. I get self doubts,i get anxious about my future about having a family. But staying with such a regressive guy will definitely harm my individuality. His father said to me are you an ias or pcs but this was not the time to answer him back. This is the time to work and let it be. Work on building yourself and work on building an empire. You will reach there Girl. PAtience and Trust is all it takes.Trust your guts. Believe in yourself. And now prove not to them but to yourself that you are stronger than this!!! Bade papa badi maa pls be with me in  this journey. Pls I need your support. Pls help my parents to cope through this phase of life. God pls give us strength.